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A friend of mine is between a rock and a hard place and keeps asking me what I would do. But I have no idea. Here's the situation:
He dated this girl in highschool for like a year(so naturally they have some history together), they break up his junior year and they never talk to each other again. Fast forward to 2003/2004...its been 4 years since they've seen each other, they hook up on the fall and keep in touch(she lives in Cali). Then she moves back to seattle late fall and they start seeing each other again. Then they find out that they are pregnant. He's 20, she's 21. They decide to keep the baby and stay together. At the same time he has been staying at a mutual friends apartment(a female). His pregnant girlfriend finds a way to access his email and finds out that that he has been sleeping at this girls apartment, she flips out and goes crying to her parents. But he doesn't cheat on his girlfriend. But he did lie about where he was at night. Now he isn't allowed to see his pregnant girlfriend and the parents don't want him around. He wants to be the father of the child but has no idea what to do. On the same side his parents are telling him not to contact the girl. I keep telling him that if things are meant to be she will eventually come back. But its not looking very good for him. The baby is due late may early june. Is there anything legal that he can do?
So...anyway. Should he give up or try something?
He dated this girl in highschool for like a year(so naturally they have some history together), they break up his junior year and they never talk to each other again. Fast forward to 2003/2004...its been 4 years since they've seen each other, they hook up on the fall and keep in touch(she lives in Cali). Then she moves back to seattle late fall and they start seeing each other again. Then they find out that they are pregnant. He's 20, she's 21. They decide to keep the baby and stay together. At the same time he has been staying at a mutual friends apartment(a female). His pregnant girlfriend finds a way to access his email and finds out that that he has been sleeping at this girls apartment, she flips out and goes crying to her parents. But he doesn't cheat on his girlfriend. But he did lie about where he was at night. Now he isn't allowed to see his pregnant girlfriend and the parents don't want him around. He wants to be the father of the child but has no idea what to do. On the same side his parents are telling him not to contact the girl. I keep telling him that if things are meant to be she will eventually come back. But its not looking very good for him. The baby is due late may early june. Is there anything legal that he can do?
So...anyway. Should he give up or try something?