She doesn't like it when I drink a lot cause sometimes I am too sesitive and I flip out. So I also told her I don't like it when she drinks alot. She doesn't drink very much at all around me but drinks a lot when I am not around. I just hope it doesn't happen around me cause I don't like loud drunks so we get into arguments everytime we drink in excess together. My last relationship was the same way.Jester27 said:
How can I hide this thread from my wife?
seriously though, does she hide it around you or is it just with her friends? If she drinks when she's with all her friends, then maybe she doesn't have a problem. If she drinks alone or gets fall-down drunk when she's with her friends, then she has a problem. Hopefully she's not driving drunk.
Oh yeah, I left him 14 years ago so I'm good. As long as he doesn't start drinking again and stressing my kids out, all is well! Thanks though!xxblade said:
2up your story makes me sad But unfortunatly this is how it often ends when the alcohol steps in. I hope you have moved on in your llife.
That sounds like me. I'll have a bottle of wine a night and actually get drunk on the weekends, but for the life of me I can't understand how people can go get all trashed and then pick fights or be abusive. Especially if they do that regularly, what are they thinking? They're hurting the people that care for them and they're hurting themselves. If I ever got to the point where it was causing problems for others, I would get help. It's usually just a mellow buzz during the week, and a little bit more on the weekends but I can't remember the last time I got sick from drinking.joel647 said:
One of my friends GF's drinks a bottle of red wine a night - to me , that's a lot but her tolorance is that it's just a warm glow so honestly , I don't know if she has a problem or not . She isn't dysfunctional but she does drink a full bottle every night to be at least somewhat inebriated so I guess there is dependancy there . :shrug