Thanks A LOT for your support, guys AND gals
I wrote a long message and it got erased so here's a shorter version.....
After doing some serious thinking, I decided it was best to swallow my pride and talk to her to see what was going on because, yes I will admit that I did not and do not want to lose her...
See lives in another state, and so we have to get by on talking over the phone and IM for now...well, there were some things she was keeping from me b/c she was afraid of how it would make her and her family look...so after talking about the "issues", we decided it would be best if I took a trip to the the West Coast to see them/her again to work these things out...
so, we told each other that we both love one another and don't want to let these trivial things get in the way of us being together as they don't have any bearing on our feelings towards each other...
so, yes, we are still engaged but are going to work out the 'issues' before taking that walk
Once again, I want to thank all of YOU who took out the time to read, respond and share your own experiences bc that is NOT easy to do
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