actually, I'm under the impression that he knows it, just she won't let him leave. :crackupstylemaster53 said:What did you say because I have a friend pretty much in the same boat. "Cough" Karol...:crackup Those that have known me forever know the joke.
That was my hesitation. I actually never said that I said anything I just said she was moving out. I've just been talking to him and such to see how things are going and he told me right before Christmas that she's going to move out. He's happy/sad about it, but realizes that it's probably for the best. I was glad that it's happening because, now, I don't have to say anything.LegalNinja said:Well, I'm glad it worked out for you Matt. However, I have a different take on this kind of situation. My advice would be to stay out of it and enjoy your buddy's company when you get a chance. Let him learn how bad she is for him on his own or it could backfire on you. When I was 21 or so, I was in the same situation with my best friend whom I'd known since age 10. I told him my thoughts about his girlfriend and he told her what I said. She told him he couldn't talk to me anymore and we didn't until his mom was tragically murdered about 5 years later. That was 6 years ago and, while we actually work together in the same agency, things are still a bit "off" between us in that he still remains incapable of making a decision or taking an action for himself if his now wife opposes it. Just my $0.02