I am gonna get some MAJOR heat for this, but I really want you guy's opinion. I really care about a girl. I think I love her. She is just the greatest person for me. I love everything about her. I've known her for a long time but I hadn't seen her in several years until a few months ago. She comes over to my house a lot, and we spend a lot of time together. But here's the problem. She has a boyfriend. And here's the bigger problem that makes me look like an incredible douche. He's in iraq. I didn't start talking to her with the intent of having a relationship. But goddamnit, I really love her. She knows this. And she really likes being with me, but has a lot of guilt about it. I don't know what to do. I'm sure some of you will think I'm a tremendous asshole, but I don't care. I have been in several relationships, and this girl is really something special.