Actually I got just what I wanted. I got to spend Christmas with my girl and her family. Since I knew they are going through a rough time this made it even better. To know I was helping them forget their troubles and have a good time together. Also I managed to see my family. That wasn't part of the plan but after Turkey Dinner at my GF's place we packed up and headed the 300KMs to my parents house. Seeing the surprise and joy on their face when we walked into the door at 9PM just after I got off the phone with them and said I was still home (300KMs away) was all I needed for Christmas. We didnt even stay for 24 hours but it was the most significant visit we could have made this year.